A Dating Agents Job
Winter is here. A lot of people frown at the idea of frigid rain and woollen sweaters, but you must admit there’s nothing like a hot cup of chocolate and a warm body snuggling up next to you for a little couch time. Body heat and a treat! For all those living the coupled life, this is exactly what winter signifies, but for some single people, winter can be as cold as taxes. And to really rub salt in the wound, going out loses its appeal when the wind is howling and the rain just won’t let up.
Since winter is snuggle season, you know it’s the perfect time to find that right person to cosy up to, but unfortunately motivation is gone along with the sun. It’s hard to meet other single people if your week is already full with family, work, friends and sports. It’s even harder of you don’t let your matchmaker do her job!
You can read a lot into profiles but when you join a matchmaking agency you are paying for their expertise. You are paying for the fact that your matchmaker has met each and every person who has joined the dating agency. The matchmaker’s job is to make sure both parties are happy with the match which in my opinion ensures quality control. You can’t have one person happy to have met the other and the other person phoning me the next day to say. “ . . .what were you thinking?!”
To follow is one of my favourite testimonials at the moment – It just reiterates my advice to always a have a second date, let alone turn down a date because you don’t think he ‘sounds’ right on paper. Their reason being because they don’t kayak, and the person who I am trying to match them to, does. In my opinion it is important for you to have your own hobbies as well as shared ones. This way you can learn new things. And hey if you don’t want to learn to kayak than that’s their hobby!
This testimonial below really goes to show you can’t judge a book by its cover. This woman, upon reading his profile emailed me to say she did not want to meet him. I asked her why and she just told me it did not feel right, so I talked her into it. They are still together today, as of writing this article, June 2021. "I wish to thank you for using your magic skills in choosing someone who was really charming and interesting to have dinner with. I cannot recall when I enjoyed myself so much. I do have to admit however that I was going to turn down a second date with ___ despite having such a nice time. When I told my friend this she explained to me that in the last 4 years I have been absolutely hopeless at choosing suitable men to date and that it was about time I let the expert - that's you by the way - do their job and make the choice for me. I have to say I am very happy I have taken her advice and let you work your magic. I don't know where this new friendship will lead but at least it has started off on a promising footing. So thank you Sasha for helping me.’ - K.D - Introduced October 2008
My matchmaking agency is for genuine single people wanting to meet new people to find a partner and a long term relationship. If your life is balanced, fulfilling and simply something you want to share with a partner but you find yourself at a point in your life where time and occasion is limited and you are truly over the NZ dating sites then I have your solution. I’m a matchmaker; I’m a listener who deals with lovely, intelligent, spunky people of all ages who are smart enough to jump into a dating pool of like minded individuals. With Two’s Company, you set yourself up to have a healthy dating life and meet new people, without the effort of the hunt. You know that you will be meeting single people who have great lives, just little opportunities for meeting other single people. These people have contacted me because they are serious about meeting someone to find a partner and a long term relationship. If they wanted something quick and easy they would stick to the NZ online dating sites, bars and night clubs. They meet with me, tell me what sort of single people they would like to meet and then go on with their day to day lives knowing that we will matchmake them to single people with complimenting life styles and personalities.
So, if you’re wondering where all the great singles are in Auckland and Wellington, ask me. I talk to them everyday. So this winter, why not relax with a bottle of wine and a hot first date. It beats the winter blues and is as easy as a phone call.