Navigating the Dating Jungle - Scary, But Totally Worth It!
I understand from the plenty of conversations I have had over the last 21 years of running Two’s Company, that the thought of jumping back into the dating world can feel a bit like stepping into a horror movie—full of unexpected twists, potential heartbreak, and a few awkward encounters that make you cringe just thinking about them. But fear not! With a bit of courage and a good dose of self-awareness, getting back into dating can lead to some amazing experiences. And the end result . . . totally worth it!
On the scary side we have the fear of rejection. Let's face it, rejection stings. Whether you’re getting ghosted or just not receiving that text back in a timely fashion, it can feel like a personal attack. But remember, sadly everyone experiences it.
At Two’s Company . . . big plug here . . . I make sure all my clients understand that they must communicate to their match before I will look at someone else for them.
With so many options out there, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. What if you choose someone who isn’t a great fit? This is where a professional matchmaker can come in handy (Like me! Again, I can’t help it!). They know the ins and outs of finding a partner that matches your vibe, saving you from countless awkward dates.
There’s also the societal expectation to present your best self on dates. This can lead to anxiety about what to wear or what to say. The good news? Authenticity is the new black! Just be yourself, and you’ll attract the right people. Truer words never said! If someone does not like you for who you are . . . then they are not the right person for you.
But on the bright side, every date is a chance to meet someone new. Whether it’s a potential partner or a new friend, expanding your social circle can lead to unexpected opportunities and experiences.
Dating isn’t just about finding someone else; it’s also a journey of self-exploration. You’ll learn more about what you truly want in a partner and, most importantly, what you deserve in a relationship.
Each dating experience, good or bad, teaches you something. You’ll build resilience and learn to handle whatever life throws your way, making you a stronger, more confident individual.
Tips I give my clients when jumping back in are to try and approach dating with an open heart and an open mind. You never know who you might click with, so be willing to step outside your comfort zone.
Keep a positive outlook! Remember that dating is meant to be fun. Enjoy the journey rather than focusing solely on the end goal.
And . . . always have a second date. Don’t overthink it, don’t take it too seriously, if you had an ‘OK’ time, then have another date.
While the dating world can seem intimidating, it’s also an exciting adventure filled with possibilities. Contrary to popular belief there are thousands and thousands of singles out there, all feeling the same apprehension as you. So, gather your courage, embrace the journey, and who knows? Your next great relationship might be just around the corner.
Happy dating, everyone! 💖