Do I have a “type”?

If you're anything like most singles, you've probably had a "type" when it comes to dating. Maybe you’re into the tall, dark, and handsome, or perhaps you've always been drawn to a certain personality trait — like the quiet and mysterious, or the outgoing, adventurous thrill-seeker. But what if I told you that love might not be found within the confines of that type you’ve been holding on to for years?

When we focus too much on having a "type," we might be overlooking qualities that could actually make us a better match with someone. Sometimes, challenging your own preferences can lead to surprises. You might meet someone who doesn’t tick all the boxes you’ve always thought were important, but who makes you feel more understood, appreciated, and loved than you ever expected.

Stepping outside of your "type" means being open to new experiences and qualities that you might not have initially considered. It could mean dating someone who doesn’t share all your hobbies but challenges you in a way that helps you grow. Maybe you find yourself falling for someone who doesn’t look like the person you’ve always imagined, but whose kindness and intelligence captivate you in ways that your usual type never has. 

This isn’t to say that chemistry doesn’t matter. Of course, you should feel a spark with your partner. But love is more than just initial attraction. It’s about shared values, mutual respect, and how well you communicate and support each other. By widening your scope and not just focusing on physical traits or personality quirks that fit your ideal, you might just discover someone who complements you in a way you never imagined.

So, can love be found outside your "type"? Absolutely. In fact, it might be exactly what you need. Letting go of rigid expectations and embracing the unknown can open doors to deeper, more meaningful connections. 

So, the next time you’re thinking about your "type," ask yourself: What if the love of your life is someone you would never have considered? Stepping outside of familiar patterns could be the best thing you do for your heart.